Confession Time...

Okay, so I've had something on my mind...do I say it, do I not...what do I say, how much do I say? Hmmmm...well I just decided that I'm going to say it. I met someone.
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Okay, you can pick yourselves up off the floor, or your jaw...whichever is on the floor. Chrissy, I can hear you now. "What? Who?" (Some of my friends are a little predictable.)

Not many people know...in fact very, very few. And that's been for several reasons. One reason is I don't want to be serious, and even mentioning it kind of gives the impression it could be serious. Then again, maybe that's my hangup. Two, this is all so new to me. And I'm discovering just how truly difficult dating the second time around is. Three, the kids. And most importantly the kids...they add a whole other element to something that already has it's challenges.

I'm not giving details...no names...no stories...not now. I guess the reason why I decided to say something is because just like going through the divorce was hard, I saw how me being honest really helped not only me, but did a lot for others too. Maybe this will be the same way. It's not about the person I'm dating, it's just about dating in general. Does that makes sense?

I will say though that I am enjoying myself and although you have to jump through lots of hoops to date someone when you have kids, it seems to be worth it right now. It would have to be, because otherwise it's just too exhausting. Well more on that later...maybe.